many manipulation i have came across in my life...
some i may agree its a healthy manipulation and some may be the unhealthy one...
now what are the difference between this two manipulations?
imagine this....
A mother, lied to her son that his dog gone missing, dunno where it went and told the son that the dog is forever gone... but in fact the dog got hit by the car and died and she buried it...so do you think its the healthy one? definitely its the healthy one...these is a great sacrifice that a mother had to come out a white lies in order to protect the son's feeling...so be empathy about it...
or
manipulating one person of whom u r care for...and manipulating it for the benefit of your image status in the society or shall i call superiority FAME!!! somehow like this... u got a gf that is so outgoing and when i meant by outgoing means a bit boyish type...and ya she sort of sees ur heart...but when she is together...with him...he changed her a lot manipulate her into doing something glamour and from the 3rd person view is seems as manipulating somehow to do something that is not for herself good but rather for himself.....so what u gonna called that one? healthy manipulation? of course not....!!!!!!
now for me I DISGUST those person who manipulate ppl for the benefit of their own...
its like playing with his or hers doll...
and what benefit did it gonna get?
manipulating will never bring good ending if its for the self-benefit...
try to imagine the situation, u will understand better!
now allow me to ask u some opinion...
Do you support those who manipulate anyone else for the self-benefit purpose?
for me i DON't why?
cos this unhealthy manipulation is like the devil on the shoulder....
so think again...if u think u r doing some unhealthy benefit!!!
till then...just wanted to express my opinion...
"manipulative can be good if u give, but it is bad when u said for ME!"
NOTE THAT;
THIS ARTICLE HAS NOTHING WITH TO DO ANYONE AROUND ME! ITS JUST A MATTER OF EXPRESSING MY THOUGHT!
THIS ARTICLE HAS NOTHING WITH TO DO ANYONE AROUND ME! ITS JUST A MATTER OF EXPRESSING MY THOUGHT!
5 comments:
sound quite judgmental o~ coz i think that mostly girls would like to become better esp in beauty. If there is a bf who is the 1 that expert in how to transform others to become better, so why not the beautify manipulating is played as unhealthy role right. It might be blessedness & happiness life experience. If I can successful to make my bf be proud of myself, it will be happiness & positive self-esteem for me. Of coz la, b4 having those manipulating, the understanding inner part of some1 is important lo (i'm glad that my Zero u/stand me more than myself^^). Coz if the 1 of his fren dun wanna change also cannot be work right. So i think that don't juz believe on what u've seen. Normally, from the 3rd person view is seems always neglecting the positive side & focusing on the negative ways. Btw, if u look it from another dimension, u might notice that we're staying in what a wonderful world. So, hope that u can u/stand my point. Goodluck guy~ ^^
sounds judgmental when u think it is if u choose to read from the one side of my blog....cos all my other readers agree that its not judgmental and i am famous for not being one...manipulation? what is manipulation? to begin with it, i mentioned the good one and the bad one...and do u ever read the good part of manipulation well i encourage u read it carefully. and manipulation for the bad side is if u had clearly look into the GESTALT THEORY and so as existential and pct or can say life common sense u would of course und why manipulation is not the idea of it....i talk bout this manipulation is because of my interpretation of my socialogy assignment entitled "are we prisoner of society?" so x get it wrong ah...and yes look into the other dimension yes it might benefit if one person themselves is appreciating it...but it is not if the person not themselves? so tats my point. and josheen to make it clear....the examples i got it is not about u if u felt it so personal cos i've seen there's some responses going on to my blog...haiz.....to clarify it to u, the examples is not me the one who give it, u wanna to tell that to the french columnist who gave the example regarding bout the situation his brother is making his brother's lover...so in order words...you OUGHT read carefully when i meant
"NOTE THAT;
THIS ARTICLE HAS NOTHING WITH TO DO ANYONE AROUND ME! ITS JUST A MATTER OF EXPRESSING MY THOUGHT!"
so x get into it personal...democracy voice out is meant for ppl to gives their own opinion and if so...to read about it (as i mentioned in my earlier blog) x read it with emotions! read it with understanding....
"life is not a stereotype if one person tolerate with the ideas of any given being"
hope u can get what i meant ah josheen...x take it personal...and there's not me the only one who wrote this kind of blog...u go check my brothers and some of my frens u will know wat kind of cycle frens i am in so what environment i am ; eimwelt ok?
cheers goodluck for ur UTAR MODEL SEARCH AH! hope u win ah <----if i ever wish u before dont u think i support u as well ? i am not a man of discrepancy cos i detect ppl's not mine myself...so i am well aware! GAMBATEH!
phew~
and fyi also...its not meant for u to felt it cos if not why some others frens of mine involve and making money from modeling x come over to BOTHER with this article....and articles as well...so again x get it personal...make it general and u will see what i am talking...
oo...ok~ calm down guy. actually i just gave my comment here. "ITS JUST A MATTER OF EXPRESSING MY THOUGHT" same as u said =) take it easy ya^^
lol....i am calm...jus being professional...
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