the following are the list of COMMON human actions are based on the social norm or conformity or in easier to be understandable PEER or social influence...
1.fashion
2.talking style
3.eating style
4.mindset
owh...why issit fashion is one of them? (well mostly we all knw oledi...) but how about talking...n eating.? why issit so? well...allow me to explain....
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have to this again...for so called *freedom of speech* not because of the law (i knw it very well, my limit) but rather because of those SENSITIVE-NARROW-SIMPLE-MINDED people around me who has the access to read this....seriously this kind of ppl....GET SOME LIFE!!
WARNING: for what i am going to write...has nothing got to do with anyone around me i knw i came across or anything around me....it is meant for me to share some thoughts...if so u reject it....so be it...x care about it...because this is an act of me practicing the freedom of speech that coexist with our current law...THANK YOU VERY MUCH...
FASHION.
in different culture or different border there are different type of fashion u may came across....
u can see some japanese fashion ah, taiwanese fashion ah or maybe western fashion (mostly like USA style or british) but then...where is MALAYSIA fashion
no i didn't mean about the traditional fashion...i assure u we still following it...but what i mean is the modern MALAYSIAN fashion....so sad i x find any...
all i can see is those ah liang and ah bengs putting on their "Christmas Trees" everyday n look like this:
enough said....
yes, i am aware that our nation is multicultural one...but does tat stop us from creating our own fashion? why do we have to adopt others? until i x find any desirable fashion here in malaysia so i tried out different style (hairstyle to be exact)
this is so sad...i shall say....in terms of modern fashion...Malaysia is like an ants to them....haiz...
also definition of beauty is not because of how curve is ur body or how muscular ur body is...the real beauty ppl! is ur own heart tats the true one....u knw why? the heart is the everlasting one till after death....ur body le? when u're in ur own tomb ur body will rot like wat....ZOMBIE?
TALKING STYLE
"oh my god" in a broken english pronunciation but with strong taiwanese accent....
slangs.... accents....this is so ridiculous...
where's ur own style of talking?
do u knw jay chou n eminem actually get popular because of their UNIQUE style of talking?
why do u have to talk in british accent while ur IC or birth cert says u're born in MALAYSIA?
sometimes i also notice that some mandarin speaker even IMITATE Taiwanese speaker?
do u knw u're making a fucking fool out of urself? be urself , loser lol.....
EATING STYLE
not because of the food...
what i meant is the way they eat....hello malaysians....why do u have to eat like those in KOREAN drama?
why u eat like tat u will be so classy ah? or eat like tat u are a model oledi ah?
oh pls....eating styles doesn't make any different
how u eat? woah...eat sip by sip as if the food is too big for ur mouth for the sake n the love of ur own god...u have a wide mouth! utilize it n dun waste ur own time ur god created for u....zzz....
sad...sad....sad....
MINDSET
now tat one is the landmine.....why?
u see this...
when ppl said or labeled u as a weirdo...everybody will follow the false statement n continue doing it without further investigate the reason why....
how bout i asked u guys this question....
why do u have to follow other ppl's maladaptive thoughts while ur own mind is so pure? why do u want it to be polluted by those brain who oledi being polluted like BLEAK!!
no wonder the whole word jus x help themselves from stopping the pollution...
i bet even the green peace ppl also polluting now la lol....(not big but small like....imposible u guys can avoid using computer? the source of pollution?)
for my own experience....when i changed my hair to mohawk... a person started to badmouth saying my hair lik this cos i want to seek attention and tat because i am crazy oledi...
bullshit pls...have u guys seen the extreme one before?
n u call them crazy?....fyi this is an article i read from a life of a DOCTOR
excuse me doctor? dare to say this doctor as in major in psychiatric crazy?
or she wants to be attention seeker? eh tats BULLSHIT pls...
like her...i'm actually pursuing n doing something i like....
in more general one i guess i will hav a specific article jus for it...cos its long n complicated....
but this is wat i experience...i like my hair tat way cos i want to be MYSELF not because i want to be different than other ppl so tat i can get attention....i x give a shit to those want attend to me....cos i am happy for i am DEREK, in some ways i am oledi successful...i am achieving it wit my own effort n encouragement with family n frens....MARK MY WORDS....
fyi: even my family member especially my brother, Daniel Bong Cheng Hua, x mind at all, why do u guys give a shit about it le? if u all are so collectivist type....
to end my article...
why do u need to fall into those stupid conformity....i tot malaysia is multiracial n by tat means malaysia is COLORFUL?
but why issit malaysians seems so dull saje....
where are the painters? where are the papers? where are the COLORS?
get urself colorful n u will coexist urself happily without all the BIAS n DISCRIMINATION
this is the real life....live wit the colors u have in u....who care wat ppl said ur color is or follow wat color...u have ur own color be who u are n make ur world around
colorful...
REMEMBER THIS IT IS UP TO U TO MAKE THE WORLD COLORFUL, SO BE URSELF!!!
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