back to blogging again...

now how shall i start after a long period of time not blogging?

hmmm....tell the reasons? (x need cos reasons is useless somehow)

or should i start wit something weird thoughts in my mind? (this gonna scare ppl...lol)

so....

share watever going thru my mind nw...

facebook....

scrolling down facebook...looking thru fren's status...(ya...even those in chinese...)

(no offence its the fact) a lot of them mentioned their problem, or something disappointed ah or something they are piss off in their life....

even some may felt so sad..they even mentioned they wanna cry or felt hopeless

*now this is not for shooting ppl but hopefully this will HELP la*

wonder why all this happened to you or ppl around u?

no its not karma nor its unfortunate

but it is something that meant to happen

why le?

why must we suffer, why we must lost something or why must we faced disappointment?

hard to answer it with all the facts and shit...(pls x make me start with research journals ah...)

but what i can tell is based on my personal experiences and observations...

my answer is...

we all need to experience such a negative situation in order to get the positive one...

now u see this example...

albert einstein, u think in his childhood life, he got his geniuses from genetic or miracle ah? definitely not!

when he was young, he was insulted he was considered stupid he was considered retarded everything regarding education was taken away from him...although his interest in studies was so strong...

and how he ended being so smart? well it is his experience tells him to struggle for knowledge and struggle he was,, until he finally achieved it!

ok not only Albert einstein, we can also take example of Sandra bullock

we all know how she looks like and wat is she famous for; popular actress...but did u know when she was young she was bullied because she was UGLY?

however u also need to perceive the negative experiences as something positive or beneficial to u...

why? if u kept crying over the spilled milk...u think the milk will go back into the carton? of course not....u need to make a move right here right now...n move on...

ya...it might be easier said than done...but if u say this to urself u will have this imprinted thoughts inside urself makes u stand up from the fall n move on....n its ok..if u takes time to change this habit...cos it took me 10 years in mastering it...

not only positive mind...u also need to equipped urself with a logical rational mind...

why le? hundreds of successful ppl are not superstitious (n it is different than having a faithful religion)....

i und it has being a backbone of a person to be superstitious but if skin can be shed off or hair can grow into different type...why not ur mindset?

superstition not only inhibit ur positive development of ur mind...but it also poison ur thoughts....

for instance, in 31st december 1999 they said, y2k thingy is going to destroy the earth the whole earth will be in danger will be in chaos....

until some businessman sold off his properties stocks n all he would ever had...jus to hide underground for such an irrational superstitious...could u believe that?!

then 12.00am 1 january 2000...not a single shit happened...everything still on everything still the same except for the news informing us some ppl did something stupid in their life....

so

should i care about the so called "the fiercest hungry ghost festival this year?"

pls...x make it sounds so bad...i need to make sure my grandfather had his feast also (that is if i am taoist or buddhist)....

n x worry bout the rest...do u knw there's a guardian watching over them?

SO THOSE WHO SIMPLY SPREAD STOP IT IMMEDIATELY, hungry ghost is a good thing not something to be scare off....

i think thats all la...

but to remind u all again....

I AM NOT SHOOTING ANYONE NOR INSULTING ANYONE HERE....I AM JUST TRYING TO SHARE THE THOUGHTS IN MY MIND...HOPING IT WILL HELP INSTEAD OF OFFENDING U....

woah...do i need to do tat everytime? where's the FREEDOM OF SPEECH?

till then....

jus remember...consider ur life is like playing american football....u just got to push it one at a time...fall down or got pwned...nvm..u can still get it up again...n continue pushing through the lines until u reach the goal!

WUSSHHH!!!