questions............

our life is filled with questions that x be answered or not yet being answered usually, it's up to us to answer the question that is the experience lo...

there is so many question in life but its hard to be answered cos it might seems maladaptive or it is an unacceptable question to be answered..... the following will be questions that i personally wanted to knw but yet no answer till now...

warning it may hurt ur thought when u read it.....

Why do we all need God for ?which as i see God is figure to guide us to be a better person but why still have ppl here, around me shows as if he or she is not in control or guided by God?

What is sin? one of the sin is to kill.....yet why there's a soldier who pray before defending themselves by killing their own brother?

what is the point of life? Issit the same as the essay's point , an essential thing needed to write an essay?

how do we live our life? we live to survive or we live to contribute?

what is a perfect person definition? do we need to be perfect in something to be perfect person?

successful in entertainment reason is the mean of point of life?

is money the everything of life? money is the way of life can we live without money like ancient time?

why is there such human being in life such a stubborn person that still thinks they are right and other are wrong and conform others to believe him or she?

do you think karma existed? which emphasize on doing good thing? doing good thing u'll get good thing in return? are u sure?

we follow our bible exactly to the doctrine or issit based on our rightful interpretation?

true ka? God is exactly like our image, the human figure? if so then alien must look like us also lo issit?

are we all brothers and sisters according to the bible? then why would some ppl isolated us and some may think they are greater than us till looking at us?

can anyone tell me exactly what does this means, FOR GOD SO LOVE THE WORLD HE GAVE HIS ONE AND ONLY SON TO BE SACRIFICE FOR OUR SIN? does this stands for us to just appreciate God deeds or shall we follow his example?

Jesus is a great moral teacher or is he a God? (as adapted from a book my bro lend it to me)

what is the meaning of life...if we all live like robot wise....eat, sleep, socialise find money and DIE?

so what life is all about to u?

u can put it down ur opinion of life at the comment make it neutral pls or else i am entitled to delete the comment posted....this is for the sake of other reader too.....

till then....

"life is like an essay and a picture, without point u x write a story(essay), without colour u x paint the picture"

happenings in typical days in UTAR and somewhere else......

Er....basicly this one will be pictures also lo hahaha nothing but pictures...well i'll descibe bout it la lol...ok it's like this er....there few pict i took during lecture class lo but again once again....due to busy of assignments, presentation and exams.....i x have that time like i have now[although there's still exam going on...] to do the blog...

so i am going to be like randomly upload those picts of events to u all to see lol....well somehow i guess those person i upload so gonna kill me if he or she sees it....

ohya its a nice weather now at this time, folks at kampar i am telling to lol... hahhah seems gonna rain and nah who cares! lol.....

ok and now the first picture.....

i guess u all knw what is he doing lo.... actually wat i showing here is this....i never seen such a person so attentive to lecturer or maybe something else in his mind....lol...its not an insultive to him but well i jus wanna share to u all a role model[again.....] for been so attentive in class lol....PSYCHOLOGY UTAR KAMPAR Y1S2 should follow him although u're not listening in class but daydreaming....still can do the post...lol...

next......the sleeper......i shall call him tat lol...

ok...not i am again trying to insult him....tell u wat this fella he sleeps everyday in class lol.....and wats amazing bout it? hhahhaha he can actually sleeps while the lecturer is right in front of him or looking at him....as if the class is his bedroom..nice i wish i could be like tat but i got the fear to be scolded lol..but he x so "thumbs up" for this fella

ohya before i forgot he fall asleep in just a few seconds after the lecture class starts teaching....been awake by us he fall again in few seconds too!! lol....not to mention he sleeps with his style also the old-method-of-chinese-style-memorising-long-ancient-literature [if u get wat i mean ah if not i will upload the video of him doing that wow! the sleepyman got his way....]

next.....er....wanna show u all the 4minus 1 heavenly kings singing performance ho yeng ah~~!!!!(ken,2009)

lol....from there u can see why issit 4minus1heavenly kings lo hahhaa one is missing lol....the abang.....taking a rest le hahhahah ok from this pict is the opening from kean tat who seems so excited....lol....[they're actually presenting bout the last counseling skill lo]

next....

by wen jye....now this one seems so determine in singing lol....and sentimental lol....with his hand in the pocket lo qin ho cool ah!!!!1

another one of his, the closer look lol...

if not mistaken, i think he was asking someone beside him lol....to clarify wat to present next lol....

next is the later performer well he claimed he cut his hair to perform bout this.....lol....i like it for the daring of his...lol..

ken, the one wearing the brown pants is the one i am talking bout lol....well i x his pict performing lol.....soli hhahaha was too excited at tat time till i forgot to take a pict of it lol....[from the pict, nice post isn't it? lol....]

next will be regarding josheen's birthday lo lol....hahhahahhaha....[there were suppose a blog for her....for some reasons....one is to encourage or motivate her to blog also lol.... hhahahhah jk....]

ok we were suppose to surprise here from the side of the pathway which her frens will be bringing her out la but then haiz...mission fail the element of surprise was stupidly and funny fail lol...nvm its still a surprise......tat is according to wat she said after she claimed to see a bunch of *toot*<---been censored from unracist factor....

and so she took several of her holding the cake with diff type of post lol.....

first style....without the glasses....

2nd style......wearing her glasses.....

3rd style.....with glasses and act like....ah n_g_u lol....jk...

lol....and the last one is the grp one......

from left, shu fen, bel, and winnie aka rihanna lol.... hahhahha

so i bid happy birthday to MJ again lo..[MJ=m_ _ k_ y josheen]

then the next one will be the happening in the last day of statistic class lol.....typically ppl will think they'll full attendance well SEE THE PICT URSELF!!!

out of 80plus ppl in this course only this much attend lo hahaha and some at the back with me at tat time lol.....and obviously the front is very attentive lo hahhaha [maybe for some la lol...for daemien and angeline cheh!!! jk....]

then the back one lol....

hungry ken eating his brunch +dinner, loooking at kin teng's laptop and littering lol.....

and this is kinteng's hand.....i can say he is a busy man lol.....

BUSY WATCHING HK MOVIE/DRAMA THAT IS....

ok la that will be the last of it lol....hahahha i shall back to study now lol....

and ohya still nice the weather cos still raining lol......hhahaha and those ppl who r in this pict pls x kill me i'm innocent lol... hahhahh just posting something in blog lol....

"times and happening either happy or sad one gone, but whatever happened at that moment still there as the memories of ours..."

till then folks....enjoy studying ah!!!once again 牛力大家!!!!!for coming exam....TCP AND RESEARCH

you should see this.....

lol....well actually this is to makes myself cheer up looking back at this pict lo hahhaha cos haiz....the CURSE OF MATHS reallly kena me again lol....."nvm shall be positive so forget bout it and look ahead" (nathan,2009) lol....



so this time will let the pict to speak for the happenings that i didnt make it to the blog lol...since now i got like enourmous time before the 2 last paper....[due to one week holidays lol...] hhahhahha


so i will start by this funny notice i came accross lo hahhaha





this one ah lol....i wanted to share is this...in my whole life i ever seen such a notice for cars lo but here in UTAR, THERE IS ACTUALLY ONE FOR BICYCLE...i wonder how would they chained like about 2000 bicycles? lol......nvm i guess they will play with their style (ken,2009)



lol....next one is er....it happen when i was about to log in to a page to register for my next sem subject timetable and before i able to continue....here is something shocking to see lol.....






i think the pict speaks enough for itself lo lol.....sexb4 haiz...such a thing happen until i need to type in before registering it lol.... haiz....but then its really coincidence lo hhahha

hmmm....its late and i think tats all i gonna talk bout soli...short of photos lol...was so busy so i shall resume my


p/s:maybe i shall continue tomolo la...lol....

"牛力!!!!"(derek,2009)

我的华文blog....

我会讲华文,我爱会写华文....哈哈哈......很拉么.....

我名字是黄振强.我今天很ok....because exam 我还ok....

我等下要读 色他提s地<---statistic...lol...

色他提s地, 给我很hard....because maths 我不会...

我要牛力了吧....大家来跟我牛力吧....

till then...谢谢吧,再见....

"dare to try something new, although there's failure...but u wont regret cos u will get benefit and able to have something to tell ur grandchild next time of what u did!"

The Maldaptive behaviour around us now....

hmmm....taking a break from my study i shall blog lol...to clear the debt of not blogging for a long period of time...really long lo... what u see from the topic...hmmm........well not that i am been judgemental or stereotyping...it just what i ought to put my daydreaming thoughts...that is sharing to u all about my thoughts...[x worry its not obscene lo]....well wat i gonna do is to compare the benefit and limitations of it [i guess it'll be more of limitations...nah we'll see later lo hahahha]. before i continue....i request the readers to view it openly and neutrally hhahaha after all its merely my thoughts.... here's the first one...


"LOOKING DOWN" AT SOMEONE BECAUSE U DISLIKE HIM OR HER...
lol...looking down is something lik; u insult the person in front or back stabbing...its an act that the person will do or say something that will hurt mostly mentally....

benefits:
1. when u perform this act, u will directly or indirectly gain ur self-esteem again or more...
2. gain back ur own superiority in the society position, well its not wrong cos politician does that now and always... it's a way of fighting up to the ladder and fear not ur rival...

limitations:
1. each and everyone of human being has their own strength for example, some ppl are intellectually strong but weak in physically for instance a book smart but not active or good looking....
2. we x deny, but its the fact we will all tend to seek for revenge... so what will happen when they gain the advantage position than u and had the revenge on u for degrading them before?
3. u x make urself a happy environment around u because once there is a hatred, u'll still spoilt the happy environment around u...in other words...looking down at someone will make u frustrated...what will happen if u sees him or her again when u had a very happy moment now? yes u can run away..to where? Alaska....lol...

"dogs look up to you; cats look down on you; pigs treat you as an equal" by winston churchill


GET IN A GROUP AND BE "SEPERTI KATAK DI BAWAH TEMPURUNG"
there is some group of ppl that will get together and formed a societies either secretive or openly...to be what the malay idiom called "seperti katak di bawah tempurung"..what it actually means le? the idiom means been left out of anything or information that is happening around him or her... ignoring it and only concern the individual's or groups' own matter lo....

benefits:
1. great friendship bonding
2.better understanding hence better coorperations....
3. good training or the start of been a secretive societies or group...

limitations:
1. are u able to be creative for not mingle around the other societies or the ppl around u?
2. how would that help if u just stay in the same group that maybe not progressing at all?
3. can u be successful person as an individual? take a look of the person who wonder around the world, jet li. bruce lee, charles darwin. carl jung, michelle yeoh and a lot more....
4. easily get brain washed. why? stay in a group and take in only the same opinion or info but resist or unable to take in the info or opinion from other parties... for instance the north korean communist government how they spread their propaganda to their people against the whole world now...now look at them now... healthy?
5. Almighty God teaches us that we all are brothers and sisters...why would there be stubborn-not-separateable-groups le?

"ideas are not merely by an individual himself or herself, instead it is obtain by mixing ideas from the varities of individual's mind"


BEEN NOT DARE TO TRY SOMETHING NEW OR DIFFERENT OR IN OTHER WORDS TAKE A RISK....
not dare to strive for something new is like when u see an opportunity or given one... u will not dare to take it up and pursue it further cos u fear something bad will happen its the similiar thing as an individual who has low self-esteem.... that is an individual with low self-esteem la... he or she will not have the courage to try something diff or new at all lo... just wanna lik play safe at their own circle or border of comfort...

benefits
1. you wont get into trouble cos trying something new involves expectations of risk coming ur way
2. you will feel comfort
3. x need to feel hard or gone thru difficutlties...because doing something new means u need to give up the past to go for the future,....

limitations
1. imagine when u are already a grandpa or grandma and ur grandchild ask u this " what is the significant things u have done?" how would u going to answer that when u did nothing at all in ur life?
2. they say u x try u never knw what it is... cos... seen is believing...so miss the chance then...
3. if u're not dare to do someting new... how would u felt, for instance for guys ah.. when there's a beautiful gal just in ur neighbourhood, so beautiful until u scare that ur own standard x match it up to her so u just wait and wait for her to make a move....eventually the dreamed girl got taken away by another guy who u felt that he is uglier than u....? "ang tui jor lo"....ponder this...

"change is the law of life. and those who look only to the past or the present are certain to miss the future" by John F.Kennedy

till then ppl... have a nice thought over what i've compare to u all ah lol...
enjoy ah

" We must be crazy to seek for a counselor!"

lol.......for those who studied or studying psychology or counseling, sounds so familiar to u?

well in fact, "we must be crazy to seek for a counselor" is one of the misconception or what we call it myth when seeking a counselor or psychologist.

now whats the purpose bringing this topic up that sounded so cliche oledi....lol...not to contribute another boredom element to u all but to CORRECT SOME MISCONCEPTION ISSUE THAT I'VE BEEN SECRETLY OR LOW-PROFILE OBSERVE IT AND INDIRECTLY TO TEST THE OBSERVATION [yes, for those have this judgemental or stereotyping attitude, soli to say tat u wont beliv i did all those observation and testing well in fact i did....x beliv? time will tell...lol....]

and the result is that almost everyone i came across thinks that studying psychologist or involving with related areas are consider "NUTS" "SOT" "SIAW" "WEIRD" and to the worst one i came acrossed [ i x list out the result cos if i do, due to p&c...lol....]

"PSYCHO" which is a layman term means orang gila or crazy ppl with some sort of disorder...

well i asked myself...is this had to do with society norm conception toward psychologist?

for saying psychologist are crazy ppl because they study bout the crazy ppl [even for me i wont call ppl who with accute disorder as crazy ppl]

or perhaps its because they have to do it just to stay superior among themselves? because most of psychology theory or facts or research pointed out things that is out of the society norm perspective and to generalize psychologist as the crazy ppl to protect themselves because psychologist able to see thru unacceptable issue or maladaptive behaviour that most society member cant accept it?

hmmmm........

ponder this, psychologist= philosopher....and why is that?

let me get this straight psychologist had long existed since the begining of civilizations and why issit philosopher are similiar with psychologist

u consider this, psychologist study the science, behaviour and mental processes of human being and how about philosopher? have u all look into their literature, their explaination of human behviour and attitude and the most important their quotation that gives solution to a better lifestyle or for the mean of understanding....

so do u see the similiarities? now the next thing i gonna bring forward is who are the philosopher?.....the following are the names of famous and respectful individual;

JESUS CHRIST [soli ah, be the first cos i am christian ah]
NABI MUHAMMAD s.a.w
BUDDHA
CONFUCIOUS
SOCRATES
PLATO
ARISTOTLE
ABRAHAM LINCOLN
JOHN F.KENNEDY
MAHATMA GHANDI
WINSTON CHURCHILL

why Jesus Christ consider as one of the philosopher? read the bible and u will knw although some free thinker x beliv in God but they do respect that Jesus Christ as a the greatest moral teacher.

not to mention Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. [ i knw bout Islam because my primary school i study bout it ] also teaches Umat Islam how to view the life and deal with it.

Buddha, those who are buddhist should knw what i meant oledi by now... cos i've came accross teachings in this religion that mention bout and emphasize respecting ppl....so as Confucious teaching...

not forgetting politicians also are psychologist although they x have the certified evidence...u can see from their administration and their victorious act...u need to learn and understand human being to be politicise with the society...

or perhaps mayb its been a culture that for those who are study bout human being and not accepted by the society norm are meant to be EXECUTED? for instance, Jesus Christ whom He been crucifixed, other philosopher such as Abraham Lincoln; been shot in the head for seeting the slave free........greek philosopher been killed and assinated........Renainssence philosopher been sentenced to death for having blasphemy thoughts? or statement, Galileo....

SO FOR THOSE PPL WHO HAVING THIS KIND OF ATTITUDE, THINK AGAIN WHO ARE U INSULTING TO WHEN U ARE INSULTING THE KNOWLEDGE THE PSYCHOLOGIST GAIN FROM....

i'm doing this cos i can see such perception may leads to calamity[ i knw judgemental-knw-it-all-ppl, u might be saying i think too much! and arrogant]

why calamity? let me ask u, how did the wars began?

the cause of war is not the environment factors but its all sparked by the thoughts of an individual....

"he who does not accept the fact, will see no future and lost"


so think again ppl... lol....hahhhhahaahhahhaaah

thnks to Azlan, me too finally got the full definition of "ah beng"

whahhahahha when i was browsing thru facebook i came accross my fren's bro status, Azlan;

Azlan Au Ive finally found it the complete definition of AH Beng! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_Beng and yes Aliff I am to bored in Miri k....DONT judge me..

lol... x worry Azlan i x judge u cos i am bored of assignments too lol... hahhahahah

seriously it never came to me that such stereotype definition end up existing in wikipedia lol...

not bad... i guess "ah beng" had reached their popularity level to the international status lol....

well i am showing this not that i am stereotyping them,

but i found it proud and appreciative that such unique culture of Malaysian and Singaporean perhaps South East Asia region, been regconised... lol..

here is the url... just click it... tat is in case if u're lazy la lol...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_Beng

lol... enjoy ah..till then...

p/s: for those fear to be one, u can compare the general characteristic of ah beng with urs lol...

oh ya i almost forgot... the ah lian one lol...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_lian