lol.......for those who studied or studying psychology or counseling, sounds so familiar to u?
well in fact, "we must be crazy to seek for a counselor" is one of the misconception or what we call it myth when seeking a counselor or psychologist.
now whats the purpose bringing this topic up that sounded so cliche oledi....lol...not to contribute another boredom element to u all but to CORRECT SOME MISCONCEPTION ISSUE THAT I'VE BEEN SECRETLY OR LOW-PROFILE OBSERVE IT AND INDIRECTLY TO TEST THE OBSERVATION [yes, for those have this judgemental or stereotyping attitude, soli to say tat u wont beliv i did all those observation and testing well in fact i did....x beliv? time will tell...lol....]
and the result is that almost everyone i came across thinks that studying psychologist or involving with related areas are consider "NUTS" "SOT" "SIAW" "WEIRD" and to the worst one i came acrossed [ i x list out the result cos if i do, due to p&c...lol....]
"PSYCHO" which is a layman term means orang gila or crazy ppl with some sort of disorder...
well i asked myself...is this had to do with society norm conception toward psychologist?
for saying psychologist are crazy ppl because they study bout the crazy ppl [even for me i wont call ppl who with accute disorder as crazy ppl]
or perhaps its because they have to do it just to stay superior among themselves? because most of psychology theory or facts or research pointed out things that is out of the society norm perspective and to generalize psychologist as the crazy ppl to protect themselves because psychologist able to see thru unacceptable issue or maladaptive behaviour that most society member cant accept it?
hmmmm........
ponder this, psychologist= philosopher....and why is that?
let me get this straight psychologist had long existed since the begining of civilizations and why issit philosopher are similiar with psychologist
u consider this, psychologist study the science, behaviour and mental processes of human being and how about philosopher? have u all look into their literature, their explaination of human behviour and attitude and the most important their quotation that gives solution to a better lifestyle or for the mean of understanding....
so do u see the similiarities? now the next thing i gonna bring forward is who are the philosopher?.....the following are the names of famous and respectful individual;
JESUS CHRIST [soli ah, be the first cos i am christian ah]
NABI MUHAMMAD s.a.w
BUDDHA
CONFUCIOUS
SOCRATES
PLATO
ARISTOTLE
ABRAHAM LINCOLN
JOHN F.KENNEDY
MAHATMA GHANDI
WINSTON CHURCHILL
why Jesus Christ consider as one of the philosopher? read the bible and u will knw although some free thinker x beliv in God but they do respect that Jesus Christ as a the greatest moral teacher.
not to mention Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. [ i knw bout Islam because my primary school i study bout it ] also teaches Umat Islam how to view the life and deal with it.
Buddha, those who are buddhist should knw what i meant oledi by now... cos i've came accross teachings in this religion that mention bout and emphasize respecting ppl....so as Confucious teaching...
not forgetting politicians also are psychologist although they x have the certified evidence...u can see from their administration and their victorious act...u need to learn and understand human being to be politicise with the society...
or perhaps mayb its been a culture that for those who are study bout human being and not accepted by the society norm are meant to be EXECUTED? for instance, Jesus Christ whom He been crucifixed, other philosopher such as Abraham Lincoln; been shot in the head for seeting the slave free........greek philosopher been killed and assinated........Renainssence philosopher been sentenced to death for having blasphemy thoughts? or statement, Galileo....
SO FOR THOSE PPL WHO HAVING THIS KIND OF ATTITUDE, THINK AGAIN WHO ARE U INSULTING TO WHEN U ARE INSULTING THE KNOWLEDGE THE PSYCHOLOGIST GAIN FROM....
i'm doing this cos i can see such perception may leads to calamity[ i knw judgemental-knw-it-all-ppl, u might be saying i think too much! and arrogant]
why calamity? let me ask u, how did the wars began?
the cause of war is not the environment factors but its all sparked by the thoughts of an individual....
"he who does not accept the fact, will see no future and lost"
so think again ppl... lol....hahhhhahaahhahhaaah
thnks to Azlan, me too finally got the full definition of "ah beng"
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
whahhahahha when i was browsing thru facebook i came accross my fren's bro status, Azlan;
lol... x worry Azlan i x judge u cos i am bored of assignments too lol... hahhahahah
seriously it never came to me that such stereotype definition end up existing in wikipedia lol...
not bad... i guess "ah beng" had reached their popularity level to the international status lol....
well i am showing this not that i am stereotyping them,
but i found it proud and appreciative that such unique culture of Malaysian and Singaporean perhaps South East Asia region, been regconised... lol..
here is the url... just click it... tat is in case if u're lazy la lol...
p/s: for those fear to be one, u can compare the general characteristic of ah beng with urs lol...
oh ya i almost forgot... the ah lian one lol...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_lian
Azlan Au Ive finally found it the complete definition of AH Beng! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_Beng and yes Aliff I am to bored in Miri k....DONT judge me..
lol... x worry Azlan i x judge u cos i am bored of assignments too lol... hahhahahah
seriously it never came to me that such stereotype definition end up existing in wikipedia lol...
not bad... i guess "ah beng" had reached their popularity level to the international status lol....
well i am showing this not that i am stereotyping them,
but i found it proud and appreciative that such unique culture of Malaysian and Singaporean perhaps South East Asia region, been regconised... lol..
here is the url... just click it... tat is in case if u're lazy la lol...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_Beng
lol... enjoy ah..till then...p/s: for those fear to be one, u can compare the general characteristic of ah beng with urs lol...
oh ya i almost forgot... the ah lian one lol...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ah_lian
experiencing Disdain....
Friday, August 7, 2009
hahahha well actually i came across this term when i was doing my revision [halfway thru la] for my midterm coming later in perhaps er... 5 hours and 33 min [estimated ah]....
why i chose this title for today le?
ok u see this condition....
when i presenting for my assignment course, UAPP 1054 personality, it was fine at first, although there was some of group member who gave away simple and obvious wrong info to the audience....i was lik fuck up...but then nvm...still can cope with it...
so there was this Q and A session which always comes along with COMMENTS
and this was the worst part....
because the rest of the audience gave positive comments so as the lecturer and not to mention gave a improvement comments...i appreciated it very much....
then there's somebody ah... WTH i dunno wats wrong with ### <--- i need to hide the gender to cover up the person's identity.... lol...
### happen to be bad mood, ok it doesnt matter, so ### comment was like so more to hurting, i still can cope with it....
then wordy....huh? minimun 30 words per slide.....how many words? 10 words? hai.....still ok... then bla bla bla <----x want to mention also...
the most lethal word out from ### mouth and says this, [first time i got such a comment.....never before ppl said this to me bout my slides or performance....] " YOUR SLIDE IS NOT INTERESTING AT ALL!!!! [sounded in a very intense authorative voices] so i was so OFFENDED by such a statement....
does ### ever notice the eyebag of mine so as my group member? u think we jus wanted to be panda cos we wanted to? we all spent lik hours and hours of our relaxation time dedicated to presentation so that we can get a proper marks as we expected!!!!
why? we came here to study lo and so as the rest of the student and so expected them to RESPECT us in tat way not just randomly or suka suka shoot us or insulted us in front of our frens.....
does ### ever realised that when ### said that she is not actually hurting me only... instead she was lik insulting 5 people with one goal....
yet i got a disagreement and i need to cover ### ass up for saying such statement....
i respect ### but ### x respect us.... i wonder how would i able to give credit or our respect towards ### when ### was the one presenting next time?
are u expecting us to do the karma? hai~.....
nvm la.... since the few days my mood was off due to tension n anger from assignments lo...
so i think by right i should have forgive ### and YES I FORGIVEN ### ACTION... i knw it seems ackward to forgive one person that almost kill u in the presentation marks...
but nvm la.... as john f.kenedy once said.... "forgive your enemy but don't forget them" so i am upholding this kind of forgivness...
till then... i wish myself goodluck later lol.... for midterm....
i cont my revision now ah... lol....
fyi, here is the view of my slide whom ### claimed to be x interesting at all.... i prefer to said its simple instead of not interesting at all.....[random part of my slide lazy... ma....]
another random one....
and last....
why i chose this title for today le?
ok u see this condition....
when i presenting for my assignment course, UAPP 1054 personality, it was fine at first, although there was some of group member who gave away simple and obvious wrong info to the audience....i was lik fuck up...but then nvm...still can cope with it...
so there was this Q and A session which always comes along with COMMENTS
and this was the worst part....
because the rest of the audience gave positive comments so as the lecturer and not to mention gave a improvement comments...i appreciated it very much....
then there's somebody ah... WTH i dunno wats wrong with ### <--- i need to hide the gender to cover up the person's identity.... lol...
### happen to be bad mood, ok it doesnt matter, so ### comment was like so more to hurting, i still can cope with it....
then wordy....huh? minimun 30 words per slide.....how many words? 10 words? hai.....still ok... then bla bla bla <----x want to mention also...
the most lethal word out from ### mouth and says this, [first time i got such a comment.....never before ppl said this to me bout my slides or performance....] " YOUR SLIDE IS NOT INTERESTING AT ALL!!!! [sounded in a very intense authorative voices] so i was so OFFENDED by such a statement....
does ### ever notice the eyebag of mine so as my group member? u think we jus wanted to be panda cos we wanted to? we all spent lik hours and hours of our relaxation time dedicated to presentation so that we can get a proper marks as we expected!!!!
why? we came here to study lo and so as the rest of the student and so expected them to RESPECT us in tat way not just randomly or suka suka shoot us or insulted us in front of our frens.....
does ### ever realised that when ### said that she is not actually hurting me only... instead she was lik insulting 5 people with one goal....
yet i got a disagreement and i need to cover ### ass up for saying such statement....
i respect ### but ### x respect us.... i wonder how would i able to give credit or our respect towards ### when ### was the one presenting next time?
are u expecting us to do the karma? hai~.....
nvm la.... since the few days my mood was off due to tension n anger from assignments lo...
so i think by right i should have forgive ### and YES I FORGIVEN ### ACTION... i knw it seems ackward to forgive one person that almost kill u in the presentation marks...
but nvm la.... as john f.kenedy once said.... "forgive your enemy but don't forget them" so i am upholding this kind of forgivness...
till then... i wish myself goodluck later lol.... for midterm....
i cont my revision now ah... lol....
fyi, here is the view of my slide whom ### claimed to be x interesting at all.... i prefer to said its simple instead of not interesting at all.....[random part of my slide lazy... ma....]
another random one....
and last....
Just another day in the campus........
Monday, July 20, 2009
what u about to see is how my course mates behaved in the class lo....
and this aint acting lol..[lame i knw i shut up]
so i will allow the picture to do the talking....
the following is different style of paying attention in class and i mean it, its really different lo...
have a look then...
this is kavi, take a look at how cute she was been serious....KAWAII ah~~~(josheen,2009).
another one...this one is shu xao... man this guy is lik slow-style-cool man... i like it... he got his style... and oh ya since he is the slow-style-cool person thats how he pay attention in the class.
then....
wen jye[the one wearing red shirt] holding up the table...dunno for wat...anyway thats how he studies....
now this i personally lik the best lol... hahhahah from right ken [the one look lik nightclub bodyguard], baron [ss in the centre] and kean tat [hai~this one, his action suits his personality reading newspaper like relaxing all the way]
why i like the best cos they are using some kind "secret" formation to pay attention in the class lol... hahhahah......cool le! (ken,2009)
however....
this is the best of all the style of studying and i never came across one ppl studying this way
serious shit man (christabel, 2009)
why have a look....
check out those ppl starring at the laptop, king teng, bel and zi ying
what are they doing?
WATCHING MOVIE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE LECTURE CLASS LOL...
hahahah now this is the different style of my coursemate and now showing u the next activity...
fishing in class lol.....
i will just show u the way how they sleep and u see it urself
and of course i will mentioned their names lol... hahhahahha
fyi all of them sleeping DURING the lecture class lol...
here is the first,
cs...haiya tat one from morning till night sleeps one la "night stalker" he is....why only active at night lo
faiezah, sleeping like no other could...
from left, sharon and kim "sleeping together" comfortly lol... [i knw it sounds so wrong sharon lol....]
sleepy boy baron....owh how cute~ lol....
shhhss.s... [quietly] wei yen she was sleeping how enjoying lo....
and ppl those are the diff style of fishing in the class lol... hahhha
then when the class ended...or almost ended......u see the difference lol...
itu dia faiezah, tadi tidur nyenyak dengar class tamat terus active macam itu la....
owh pity sharon...."i didn't have enough sleep, u know" (sharon, 20/7/2009) whereas kim still look fine, of course...she do her KIM-ky style lol....(derek,2009)
ting ying, err... i dunno whether she got sleep or not la but i assume she didnt lo.... haahhaha owh no its....hihihehiheiiehhiiiihhhii (ting ying,2009 or maybe earlier)
this are the overall reaction of the class....tsk tsk... u still can see a paper aeroplane somemore lol... hahhahah [on the first row table]
hahhahah nothing much liaw le... hahhhaha
but.... i have to show you all one of the fashion of the day lol....
x scold me ah to the person who r in this picture [u knw who u r]
lol.....cool le!!! (ken,2009).......phweet!!!! owh....(jun keong & chenn boon, 2009)
another pose...
KAWAII AH~~~(josheen, 2009) hahahha i am so gonna be killed lol... after that person read my blog lol....
ok la till then ppl i need to back to my assignments lol....
kinda busy lo soli... will update if i got so much free time like now lol....
till then folks....
"u study ur own way, but as long u got the result u expected"
and this aint acting lol..[lame i knw i shut up]
so i will allow the picture to do the talking....
the following is different style of paying attention in class and i mean it, its really different lo...
have a look then...
this is kavi, take a look at how cute she was been serious....KAWAII ah~~~(josheen,2009).
another one...this one is shu xao... man this guy is lik slow-style-cool man... i like it... he got his style... and oh ya since he is the slow-style-cool person thats how he pay attention in the class.
then....
wen jye[the one wearing red shirt] holding up the table...dunno for wat...anyway thats how he studies....
now this i personally lik the best lol... hahhahah from right ken [the one look lik nightclub bodyguard], baron [ss in the centre] and kean tat [hai~this one, his action suits his personality reading newspaper like relaxing all the way]
why i like the best cos they are using some kind "secret" formation to pay attention in the class lol... hahhahah......cool le! (ken,2009)
however....
this is the best of all the style of studying and i never came across one ppl studying this way
serious shit man (christabel, 2009)
why have a look....
check out those ppl starring at the laptop, king teng, bel and zi ying
what are they doing?
WATCHING MOVIE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE LECTURE CLASS LOL...
hahahah now this is the different style of my coursemate and now showing u the next activity...
fishing in class lol.....
i will just show u the way how they sleep and u see it urself
and of course i will mentioned their names lol... hahhahahha
fyi all of them sleeping DURING the lecture class lol...
here is the first,
cs...haiya tat one from morning till night sleeps one la "night stalker" he is....why only active at night lo
faiezah, sleeping like no other could...
from left, sharon and kim "sleeping together" comfortly lol... [i knw it sounds so wrong sharon lol....]
sleepy boy baron....owh how cute~ lol....
shhhss.s... [quietly] wei yen she was sleeping how enjoying lo....
and ppl those are the diff style of fishing in the class lol... hahhha
then when the class ended...or almost ended......u see the difference lol...
itu dia faiezah, tadi tidur nyenyak dengar class tamat terus active macam itu la....
owh pity sharon...."i didn't have enough sleep, u know" (sharon, 20/7/2009) whereas kim still look fine, of course...she do her KIM-ky style lol....(derek,2009)
ting ying, err... i dunno whether she got sleep or not la but i assume she didnt lo.... haahhaha owh no its....hihihehiheiiehhiiiihhhii (ting ying,2009 or maybe earlier)
this are the overall reaction of the class....tsk tsk... u still can see a paper aeroplane somemore lol... hahhahah [on the first row table]
hahhahah nothing much liaw le... hahhhaha
but.... i have to show you all one of the fashion of the day lol....
x scold me ah to the person who r in this picture [u knw who u r]
lol.....cool le!!! (ken,2009).......phweet!!!! owh....(jun keong & chenn boon, 2009)
another pose...
KAWAII AH~~~(josheen, 2009) hahahha i am so gonna be killed lol... after that person read my blog lol....
ok la till then ppl i need to back to my assignments lol....
kinda busy lo soli... will update if i got so much free time like now lol....
till then folks....
"u study ur own way, but as long u got the result u expected"
The "little" Dark Knight~
Friday, July 17, 2009
lol....not confuse u all, the dark knight i was not referring tot the batman ah
it's actually just a bat... and here have a look at it urself
i mean little its really little lol.... *serious shit ppl*
it's about the size of my hand...no i think smaller lo, i found it somewhere around my apartment. it was lying down there, and at first i tot it was dead no it wasn't lol....
well it's quite disappointing to say it's my first time to actually see a bat that close lol....
not to mention ah i think it's CUTE lol...
but one prob is that the bat still had its eye's close lo... i assumed it might be a baby bat...pity it.
so we (me and my frens) have decided to take care of it. so we fed it with some fruits we had. and it ate it lol... so we tot we could able to raise it up until one night it could fly away.....
however le~ this little bat....
REST in PEACE>>>> so sad i knw~ lol...
wat to do...i think its due to the weather here in my apartment too hot until it x stand lol...[why didnt i think of it earlier lol....bats need dark and moisturise area thats why they lives in the caves!]
nvm have a look of diff shot of this bat lol...
cute or not? i knw some ppl might be scare of it, due to its dark evil look but when u see the way it ate the fruits i gave, i assure u that u'll thinks its cute also lol....
hahhahha thats all for now lol...
shall return to my "busy-ness" time......
before tat....
my thumb says "HELLO!!!!" hhahahha i knw its so damn lame.... [excuse me ah i was in stress mode now from this month till the next month or perhaps till this semester is over....]
"Susah-susah dulu, akhirnya akan senang~ [sure ka?]"
it's actually just a bat... and here have a look at it urself
i mean little its really little lol.... *serious shit ppl*
it's about the size of my hand...no i think smaller lo, i found it somewhere around my apartment. it was lying down there, and at first i tot it was dead no it wasn't lol....
well it's quite disappointing to say it's my first time to actually see a bat that close lol....
not to mention ah i think it's CUTE lol...
but one prob is that the bat still had its eye's close lo... i assumed it might be a baby bat...pity it.
so we (me and my frens) have decided to take care of it. so we fed it with some fruits we had. and it ate it lol... so we tot we could able to raise it up until one night it could fly away.....
however le~ this little bat....
REST in PEACE>>>> so sad i knw~ lol...
wat to do...i think its due to the weather here in my apartment too hot until it x stand lol...[why didnt i think of it earlier lol....bats need dark and moisturise area thats why they lives in the caves!]
nvm have a look of diff shot of this bat lol...
cute or not? i knw some ppl might be scare of it, due to its dark evil look but when u see the way it ate the fruits i gave, i assure u that u'll thinks its cute also lol....
hahhahha thats all for now lol...
shall return to my "busy-ness" time......
before tat....
my thumb says "HELLO!!!!" hhahahha i knw its so damn lame.... [excuse me ah i was in stress mode now from this month till the next month or perhaps till this semester is over....]
"Susah-susah dulu, akhirnya akan senang~ [sure ka?]"
Another random day in UTAR
Monday, July 6, 2009
nothing much to talk bout in utar since kampar has nothing going on so i will upload some random pictures...
ya i understand tat it seems lifeless here hahahha wat to do, it is... hahhahah
WARNING!!!
the following pictures may contain lame content
lol... i knw damn lame hhaahahha
guess wat when i was attending the lecture class... a ladybird or watever insect it appeared on my notes lol... so cool le hahhaah at least there is something diff than wat i see daily in uni....
actually there's more la lik... crocodile, phyton and otter[as claimed by cs he saw one, well i will believe if i saw it myself, they say seen is believing]
x ask why i put this pict up but then i sense there's something funny or wrong bout this pict lol... especially the word "disabled toilet" lol.... and yes its one of the toilet found in utar lol.. hahhaah
or perhaps maybe i am the lame one with the lame thoughts lol....[boredom really turning me into something le]
this pict is jus some random pict i took for my class and ya this is can say the entire coursemate of mine [ some didnt come la] in a nice "big" classroom....aint tat cool u can stuff around 80plus students in a room size of tat
wat to do...too many students in utar liaw until not enough room for us so sad ah....
here is some of the activities in the class lol... "the role play" one the left side is nathan[pro acting] and on the right was sun sun [ diam diam berisi person lol... u'll get a lot of surprising things from her lo]
actually i was suppose to be the role play where sun sun was but then since i x able to play the role as a counselor using the REBT theories so i offered my role to sun sun [she did it great lo]
well they say not all theories u can use, u must use the theories according to ur ability and which u prefer and comfort with...congruent ppl, congruent.....
then time to go home....
on the way back to my bicycle i saw a group of them sitting down near the campus' lake
i assume they might be having some picnic....oh ya this is the first time i saw such event lol... picnic in campus?? aint tat nice or weird?
well who cares as long u like it lol....
anyway tat's all from me now ah i need to continue to assignment
THERE'S STILL A LOT TO BE DONE AH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u see voon i got heart liaw le hahahhaha jk...
till then ppl...
"-i lazy to think of a quote-"
ya i understand tat it seems lifeless here hahahha wat to do, it is... hahhahah
WARNING!!!
the following pictures may contain lame content
lol... i knw damn lame hhaahahha
guess wat when i was attending the lecture class... a ladybird or watever insect it appeared on my notes lol... so cool le hahhaah at least there is something diff than wat i see daily in uni....
actually there's more la lik... crocodile, phyton and otter[as claimed by cs he saw one, well i will believe if i saw it myself, they say seen is believing]
x ask why i put this pict up but then i sense there's something funny or wrong bout this pict lol... especially the word "disabled toilet" lol.... and yes its one of the toilet found in utar lol.. hahhaah
or perhaps maybe i am the lame one with the lame thoughts lol....[boredom really turning me into something le]
this pict is jus some random pict i took for my class and ya this is can say the entire coursemate of mine [ some didnt come la] in a nice "big" classroom....aint tat cool u can stuff around 80plus students in a room size of tat
wat to do...too many students in utar liaw until not enough room for us so sad ah....
here is some of the activities in the class lol... "the role play" one the left side is nathan[pro acting] and on the right was sun sun [ diam diam berisi person lol... u'll get a lot of surprising things from her lo]
actually i was suppose to be the role play where sun sun was but then since i x able to play the role as a counselor using the REBT theories so i offered my role to sun sun [she did it great lo]
well they say not all theories u can use, u must use the theories according to ur ability and which u prefer and comfort with...congruent ppl, congruent.....
then time to go home....
on the way back to my bicycle i saw a group of them sitting down near the campus' lake
i assume they might be having some picnic....oh ya this is the first time i saw such event lol... picnic in campus?? aint tat nice or weird?
well who cares as long u like it lol....
anyway tat's all from me now ah i need to continue to assignment
THERE'S STILL A LOT TO BE DONE AH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u see voon i got heart liaw le hahahhaha jk...
till then ppl...
"-i lazy to think of a quote-"
apologise again....
Saturday, July 4, 2009
soli ppl... i have no time to do the blogging for this few weeks why? cos piles and piles of assignment need to finish and not to mention the due date is jus a few weeks from now lol... soli folks....
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