The Maldaptive behaviour around us now....

hmmm....taking a break from my study i shall blog lol...to clear the debt of not blogging for a long period of time...really long lo... what u see from the topic...hmmm........well not that i am been judgemental or stereotyping...it just what i ought to put my daydreaming thoughts...that is sharing to u all about my thoughts...[x worry its not obscene lo]....well wat i gonna do is to compare the benefit and limitations of it [i guess it'll be more of limitations...nah we'll see later lo hahahha]. before i continue....i request the readers to view it openly and neutrally hhahaha after all its merely my thoughts.... here's the first one...


"LOOKING DOWN" AT SOMEONE BECAUSE U DISLIKE HIM OR HER...
lol...looking down is something lik; u insult the person in front or back stabbing...its an act that the person will do or say something that will hurt mostly mentally....

benefits:
1. when u perform this act, u will directly or indirectly gain ur self-esteem again or more...
2. gain back ur own superiority in the society position, well its not wrong cos politician does that now and always... it's a way of fighting up to the ladder and fear not ur rival...

limitations:
1. each and everyone of human being has their own strength for example, some ppl are intellectually strong but weak in physically for instance a book smart but not active or good looking....
2. we x deny, but its the fact we will all tend to seek for revenge... so what will happen when they gain the advantage position than u and had the revenge on u for degrading them before?
3. u x make urself a happy environment around u because once there is a hatred, u'll still spoilt the happy environment around u...in other words...looking down at someone will make u frustrated...what will happen if u sees him or her again when u had a very happy moment now? yes u can run away..to where? Alaska....lol...

"dogs look up to you; cats look down on you; pigs treat you as an equal" by winston churchill


GET IN A GROUP AND BE "SEPERTI KATAK DI BAWAH TEMPURUNG"
there is some group of ppl that will get together and formed a societies either secretive or openly...to be what the malay idiom called "seperti katak di bawah tempurung"..what it actually means le? the idiom means been left out of anything or information that is happening around him or her... ignoring it and only concern the individual's or groups' own matter lo....

benefits:
1. great friendship bonding
2.better understanding hence better coorperations....
3. good training or the start of been a secretive societies or group...

limitations:
1. are u able to be creative for not mingle around the other societies or the ppl around u?
2. how would that help if u just stay in the same group that maybe not progressing at all?
3. can u be successful person as an individual? take a look of the person who wonder around the world, jet li. bruce lee, charles darwin. carl jung, michelle yeoh and a lot more....
4. easily get brain washed. why? stay in a group and take in only the same opinion or info but resist or unable to take in the info or opinion from other parties... for instance the north korean communist government how they spread their propaganda to their people against the whole world now...now look at them now... healthy?
5. Almighty God teaches us that we all are brothers and sisters...why would there be stubborn-not-separateable-groups le?

"ideas are not merely by an individual himself or herself, instead it is obtain by mixing ideas from the varities of individual's mind"


BEEN NOT DARE TO TRY SOMETHING NEW OR DIFFERENT OR IN OTHER WORDS TAKE A RISK....
not dare to strive for something new is like when u see an opportunity or given one... u will not dare to take it up and pursue it further cos u fear something bad will happen its the similiar thing as an individual who has low self-esteem.... that is an individual with low self-esteem la... he or she will not have the courage to try something diff or new at all lo... just wanna lik play safe at their own circle or border of comfort...

benefits
1. you wont get into trouble cos trying something new involves expectations of risk coming ur way
2. you will feel comfort
3. x need to feel hard or gone thru difficutlties...because doing something new means u need to give up the past to go for the future,....

limitations
1. imagine when u are already a grandpa or grandma and ur grandchild ask u this " what is the significant things u have done?" how would u going to answer that when u did nothing at all in ur life?
2. they say u x try u never knw what it is... cos... seen is believing...so miss the chance then...
3. if u're not dare to do someting new... how would u felt, for instance for guys ah.. when there's a beautiful gal just in ur neighbourhood, so beautiful until u scare that ur own standard x match it up to her so u just wait and wait for her to make a move....eventually the dreamed girl got taken away by another guy who u felt that he is uglier than u....? "ang tui jor lo"....ponder this...

"change is the law of life. and those who look only to the past or the present are certain to miss the future" by John F.Kennedy

till then ppl... have a nice thought over what i've compare to u all ah lol...
enjoy ah