well first of all...this came to my mind when a lecturer (note tat: i do not hate him at all ..FULLSTOP its only for the sake of mutual benefits....) kept mentioning "life is not fair" all n over n over n over....n not only him said tat...Bill Gates said it too....
but....as we all know everyone is unique...n great minds comes from great diversities...
so...i do not agree with this statement that life is not fair...
ya...i knw it seems like karma never work....or why issit u're not a prince of a royal family ah...why are u not rich....why i x have the chance to further study overseas ah...why i x have a hot n pretty girlfriend ah..or hot boiling boyfriend...and etc.....
hence.....complain n complain n complain.....whining n on and on n on....thats all?
where's the effort? you just gonna be like...leave it unfortunate as it is? thats all?
allow me to provoke u!................why are u a L.O.S.E.R?
and why did i said that?
like the example i mentioned in facebook status...
ever consider US how they gain independence from British at tat time? what they are just a peasant? its not fair...to compare with their opponent a fully well trained soldier...yet highly equipped....n how did they defeat such a powerful country at that time? until they were corner n need to raise white flag near the shore? how could they possible defeat them? not to mention decades later...successfully defended their land when british came n attack again?
ok...then x mention bout US make it more regional....how bout u consider indonesia...how they gain their independence? from Holland? lay back n wait for them to give it in? no they all stand up n fight!
revolution 1911 in china
qing conquest over ming dynasty?
mahatma ghandi ways of gaining independence....
the way how albert einstein become the genius human kind we ever know although his education background is not fair at all!!
or perhaps stephen hawking...he is attack by a disease leaves him paralyze and for typical ppl like most us...we will felt hopeless and useless...but he still able to crack the secret of blackhole theory?
and many more events....that shows unfortunates become the great success!!
then what are the similarities? u notice from all d events i mentioned?
they all responsible!!!
for the US case...the peasant responsible to fight for their independence right...
for the indonesia...they too same as the US....take up the weapons and fight!
china...believe in democracy....so stand and support for their believe....
the Qing well....they are not as good as the luxurious Ming dynasty? how they win le? determination and efforts!!
same goes to him, mahatma ghandi
and then albert einstein and stephen hawking....if say life is not fair...and they take up this idea as well...that life is not fair...do you all physicist will be able to continue or expand the studies from these two great minds?
not only historical events....religious...
buddhism...if life is not fair...then why issit the concept of karma is there?
christian? david and the goliath? Jesus himself? the slaves of the egyptians freed by Moses?
Muslim...Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. when he was under hot pursuit by the pagans? for his teaching? several attempts of not making him as a leader until life is at stake? yet he became the Khalifah? and protect the holy city agaisnt the pagan?
does this ring a bell to u?
that life is fair only if u show an effort and responsibility to yourself?
don't u think ur own religion teaching oledi mentioned the responsibility in your own life?
oh i knw some females may say...so unfair male cant get pregnant...we need to endure this pain and all...but once the baby is born...who is the baby more attach to?
u think God would like this world to be not fair? if u speak of religion?
so what if u r poor...u think its god-will? if it is..x u think its a test that actually gives u motivation to achieve better than this?
my personal case...i wasn't that fucking rich when i was so young....as compare to those rich fellas....they have everything they got...they have internet...guiness book of world record...that and this book of facts...and all....yet at that time...my mind is far richer than theirs....why? and how? i watch discoverys and nat geo only tat time...i went to library every two days....i borrow my rich fren's guiness book...i x have text book at that time...yet i am the top of the class and the school....i x go tuition they all go....yet...my rich frens teach me...with what they learned....and now thanks to all my frens help and my own effort.....i am what i am now...
u see?
or shall i say its unfair....parents is not always around wit me when i was 14years old onwards...i live alone with my brother...and somehow we have trouble with ourselves...food mostly...and house chores.....but i x see this as a negative one...u knw why?
u see here....i am in UTAR...i am able to survive alone....i could only spend RM50 per week.......i know how to spend wise...i knw how to take care myself when i was injured n sick....i can manage my own lifestyle to proper ways.....
all in all thanks to my parents for giving us early training of living alone...so that i wont be crying because of homesick....
do u call this unfair?
no not at all.....it is unfair if u remains it without any turning points from u....
all u need is RESPONSIBILITY that's all....
so ya...i x believe that life is not fair...why not?
history, religion, philosopher, famous ppl, and me myself...oledi shows life is fair only if u determine to make it fair....n just....
so life is not fair when there is lack of responsibility....enough said!
till then!
remember...this is my own opinion in my effort to practice the freedom of speech thank you....if u get angry with this...i may suggest u to google for the term freedom of speech....
